- Make sure not to cast the conversation in terms of blame; addiction is nobody’s “fault,” and in fact scientists don’t fully understand what causes addiction.
- Explain to your kids that when people use drugs or alcohol, they lose control over their thoughts and actions, and the way they behave may not be at all normal.
- Also explain to your kids that people who use drugs or alcohol have a disease, but may not realize it; they may blame their problems on other factors.
- Make it clear that addiction is a healthcare concern—and that while there is no cure, those who seek treatment from a doctor can get better and live happy, healthy, full lives.
- Try to be honest with your kids. You don’t necessarily have to go into every dark secret of your past, or of a family member’s struggle with addiction, but it’s also important not to lie or mislead.
- Note to your kids that the best way to avoid a struggle with addiction is to never get started with drugs or drinking in the first place.
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